Since when did tackiness become in the new in thing in the gay community? I may be showing my age, but it seems that once upon a time we (as a whole) wanted to come across as classy and well breed, not white trash.
Folks, I was raised as white trash as you can get. We were dirt poor, drove around in a car with rusted-out floorboards and lived in a old trailer in the middle of a cow pasture. I rose (not very far, some would say) above my upbringing and there’s no reason the gay community couldn’t either.
I am no prude by a long shot and I’ve definitely been around the block a time or two, but why do I want to take a hot shower every time I chat on Gay.Com or check my messages on other well-know online dating services ? Within minutes, I’ve had a man express an interest in pissing up my ass, one wanted me to mail him my dirty jock straps and I received an email from a local man wanting to “suck me off”. What ever happened to asking a guy out for dinner or to the movies ?
Is this just a gay male thing, perhaps ?
To my single lesbian readers, would it be normal for another woman to IM you and ask if you want to be “eaten out” or ask your bust size within, say a minute ?
It’s seems like everyone is looking for Prince Charming but no one wants to be Prince Charming. What do we do ?
People tell me that I should go to a gay church is I want to meet a higher class of gay men but to be honest, I tried gay church in the mid-nineties with my ex and we didn’t care for it. Maybe it’s time I give it another go.
I had a reader once point out that I seem to always be down on the gay community. My reply to him was this, just like a mother is harder on her own children because she expects more from them, I’m harder on the gay community because I care and I expect more out of you guys. We're supposed to be the sensitive, creative ones, right ? Let's act like it and stop thinking through out dicks and boi pussies constantly.
Ya’ll be good and forgive my rant.